I’ve decided on a care home, what do I do now?

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David Mance

So you’ve chosen a care home, and you’re ready to start thinking about the next steps to ensure a smooth transition to your new abode. This guide helps to clarify some of the different things to think about as you navigate this time so you’ll feel equipped and ready.


1. Plan Ahead

Give yourself plenty of time to contact any relevant providers and companies in order to settle accounts. Create a checklist to ensure nothing is overlooked.

This could include contacting your:

  • Water and electricity supplier
  • Gas provider
  • Telephone/Broadband company
  • Cable/Satellite
  • TV licenser
  • Healthcare providers
  • The Electoral Register
  • Post Office – to set up a post redirect
  • Council – regarding Council Tax
  • Loyalty card contacts

And any other service providers/utility companies you have business with.


2. Decide What to Bring

Some care homes have specific rules about what you can and cannot bring. Have a chat with a member of staff at the home if you’re unsure.

Personal Items

A care home may offer a furnished room, although space may be limited. To make your room feel personalised, consider bringing items that offer comfort and familiarity, such as family photos, a favourite blanket, or a small piece of furniture like a chair or lamp.

Clothing

  • Daytime clothes: Bring about two weeks’ worth (14 different outfits).
  • Nightwear: Two or three sets of pajamas, plus a dressing gown, warm socks, and slippers.
  • Activity wear: Loose-fitting clothes for activities and an outfit for getting messy (e.g., gardening or art).
  • Shoes: A couple of pairs.
  • Outerwear: A coat, hat, gloves, and scarf.
  • Special outfit: One that makes you feel great for special events.

Top tip: Label your clothing with your name to avoid mix-ups.

Toiletries and Medications

Pack toiletries like soap, shampoo, toothpaste, and personal hygiene products. Bring all prescription medications, along with clear instructions on usage.

Books, Puzzles, or Hobbies

If you enjoy reading, knitting, or puzzles, bring these along too.

Mobility Aids

Be sure to bring any walkers, canes, or wheelchairs you use regularly.

What to Leave Behind

  • Valuables: Leave expensive jewelry or large amounts of cash with trusted relatives.
  • Excessive furniture: Space is often limited.

3. Packing Your Belongings

Packing efficiently can make the move smoother.

Tips for Packing

  • Pack in stages: Start packing a few weeks ahead of the move.
  • Pack by category: Group items like clothing, toiletries, and personal items.
  • Label everything: Clearly label boxes with your name, contents, and intended room or area.

4. Preparing for the Move Into Your New Home

Things to Consider

  • Moving service: If your move involves large furniture or medical equipment, hiring a moving service might be beneficial.
  • Transportation: Arrange transportation to the care home, whether a private car, a family member’s vehicle, or medical transport if needed.

5. Settling In

Personalise Your Room

  • Unpack personal items like clothing, photos, and small furniture to make your space feel familiar.

Establish a Routine

  • Speak with staff about daily schedules, mealtimes, and activities to create a sense of structure.

Ask for Assistance

  • Don’t hesitate to request help from caregivers with arranging your space or adjusting to the new environment.

6. Adjusting Emotionally

Stay Connected

Maintain ties with family and friends through visits, phone calls, or video chats.

Explore Activities

Participating in group activities can ease loneliness and build a sense of community.

Be Patient with Yourself

Adjusting to a new environment takes time. Be kind to yourself and settle in at your own pace.


7. Maintain a Positive Outlook

Moving into a care home can open doors to new opportunities for care, socialising, and well-being.

Tips to Stay Positive

  • Get involved in community activities: Social events are great for meeting people and making friends.
  • Focus on health: Many homes offer wellness programs and healthy meals.
  • Keep communication open: Speak with staff about any concerns or suggestions to enhance your experience.

Conclusion

Packing up and moving into a care home is an emotional and practical process that requires thoughtful planning. Preparing early, organising your belongings, and maintaining an open mind during the transition can help ensure a smooth move. With the right support, this new chapter can offer opportunities to receive the care you need, meet new friends, and live a fulfilling later life in a safe and supportive environment.